Monday, August 21, 2006


I was with a little girl this weekend who is absolutely priceless!!I never asked why did this happen to me, I always said how blessed I was to have her for the 21 months that I did and how blessed I was to be able to carry her for 9 months. However I look at this little girl that I was with this weekend and I so badly wanted to help her. She is absolutely beautiful!! I sat there holding her this weekend and watched her facial expressions and the innocence in her. I found myself asking and begging Hailey and God to make her better. I won't ask for my daughter back because I know and understand that that is impossible, but damn Can I please ask for them to fix this little baby girl that is still in this world with us!! She deserves it!! My little girl was taken away with no warning, I think I atleast should get one wish-right?? I make that one wish for this little girl to be cured and her hearing given back to her full force with no surgeries to udergo and no trauma, just give her back what is rightfully hers!! I will not mention any names because it is not up to me to do so, however I love her parents and her brother very much so if everyone that reads this blog spot for just a moment could stop and ask Hailey and God to help this little girl, it may make a difference!!
The world is an amazing place, and did anyone ever stop and think about how disgusting it can be!! I spoke to a few attorneys in regards to Hailey and do you know no one wants to take the case and finally the last attorney that we spoke to explained why: In the state of New York there is no value on a childs life, therefore because it is so costly to prove medical malpractice on a viral case, the attorneys say it would cost too much money to make the case and you would never get back what you laid out!! Disgusting, no value on a childs life in the state of New York!! So are we telling doctors it's ok to screw up and kill these children?? No wonder why these pediatricians offices are they way they are, your child is just another number!!

3 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Amanda,

No value on a Childs life??? What the hell is that... I really don't get it. It makes me so mad. This world is so screwed up!! I wish I was a lawyer. I def go after all the doctors and I wouldn't charge you. Hailey was so special, she has move value then anybody will every know. I always think about her. I look up at the stars and think of that sparkle she always had in her eyes. She is amazing!! I hope that little girl you were talking about will be ok. Hailey will help her. I love you so much Amanda!!! I will talk to you soon.

Love always
Katie

4:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

These so called "attorneys" don't know the value of a child because they have never had one taken from them. I'm sure they would fight the fight if it was one of their own! They have probably never had anything horrific at all happen to them so they are numb to anyone's emotions. I am so frustrated just reading that I could scream, so I can only imagine what you guys feel like. This world is becoming more and more insane on so many levels. You don't need a lawyer to tell you the value of Hailey's life, you know that. The value of a child's life is priceless to its parents and family. It's not as if you are looking to put a price tag on her life. Maybe just get some accountablity for things that should have been taken care of. Life is one big mystery...we live it and try to figure it out. I hope you find someone with half a brain (and heart) to help you take care of the legal matters-if you decide to go foward. Hailey, your Angel girl, will watch over you.

10:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

They are right in one aspect there is no value on a childs life because it is just so large no one can put it into a dollar figure!!I may of found someone to take this I am in the process of once again photo copying medical records etc.. and I will let you know.However like I have said over and over again any money that may come out of this I don't want it will be donated in her memory,I am not doing this for the money I am doing this because someone made a big mistake and needs to know that they cannot keep diagnosing asthma because there nothing else they can come up with off the top of their head!!

9:42 AM  

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